Comments on: Size Matters

By: Katrina

Katrina — Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:50:08 +0000

I am so with you! I need to drop at least 50lbs. It’s a vicious cycle. I never allow pictures of me and my 16 month old to be taken because I hate how I look, and it breaks my heart that there aren’t many pictures of us. I’m seriously going to start weight watchers on Monday. It’s time to make a change.

Thanks for being so open & honest. I seriously think you just opened my eyes…big time!
.-= Katrina´s last blog ..{feelin’ green giveaway} =-.

By: Catherine

Catherine — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 18:24:57 +0000

I can relate to everything you wrote. While I’m fairly young, I’ve ruined my body by my EDs and however unhappy I am with my weight gain…there’s still that little voice that reminds me how easy it was not to eat. It’s a slippery slope, one I’ve been fighting for 10 years. One day I hope to find peace.

By: Mary

Mary — Thu, 16 Jul 2009 04:01:03 +0000

You can do this! I am on the same journey and although it is difficult to start (I totally just ate some ColdStone...just a small one ;O ), once you do it, you get into a rhythm. Eat healthy and get some exercise in there! Good luck! .-= Mary´s last blog ..My 9 months are up… =-.

By: Jenn

Jenn — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 23:35:28 +0000

Thank you all for your love and support. And for sharing your personal stories. It really does help knowing that you’re not the only one who’s had a similar experience. You guys/ladies are the best!!

By: melissa

melissa — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 20:07:38 +0000

Really, I love this post and its’ honesty. I’ve been there, oh so many times. Those words hurt , especially when they come from your parents. I know this personally as well. I’ve gone to the point of just living off coffee and it’s dangerous. It makes me cry when I think of how little pictures there are with me and my kids. It’s hurts like hell.
the picture of you with your daughter is beautiful and I’m so glad you wrote this. I’ve struggled with hypothyroidism since my 1st child (9 year ago) and I recently (within the past week) decided that I would no longer consider “no carbs, no sugar, etc ,etc”
I just want to be healthy , in shape and be able to be active and enjoy life with my kids.
The word “fat” is not even allowed in my home, just because even if it’s not true – it causes too much damage.

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:22:44 +0000

You are beautiful and this post is beautiful. Good for you for writing about something so difficult. I had a friend who was bulmic in high school, I've lost touch with her but I know it was terrible for her at the time. .-= Lisa´s last blog ..Laumeier Sculpture Park =-.

By: midwest mommy

midwest mommy — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 12:26:44 +0000

I saw a pic of me from my pre-baby days and I couldn't believe I thought I needed to lose weight. I really try to watch what I say to my daughter. The simplest comments like "Ugh you're too heavy to carry" might just hurt her down the road. Good luck with your journey. .-= midwest mommy´s last blog ..Why bother mopping? =-.

By: Lesley

Lesley — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 02:30:46 +0000

I’m with you sister…I thought I was HUGE as early as 8 & started dieting at 10 or 11. And, my mom “supported” me on it. Meaning, she watched my food & told me to suck in my stomach, too. So sad. I never became bulimic, but I spent 90% of my waking hours obsessing over my body, food, dieting. I “gave up” dieting about 3 1/2 years ago when I found a non-profit group that works to “undo” body image and dieting stuff. (www.beyondhunger.org) Funny thing is that I’m actually thinner than I’ve ever been without completely starving, which is nice. They have a good book, which is a great place to start.

The biggest thing this group tries to stress is that “our body” is not the measure or reflection of our value as a human being. Our body size isn’t a reflection of how much we love, how well we parent, how generous or funny we are. That was the absolute hardest thing for me to understand…and I’m only now beginning to emotionally believe that 3 years later. (I intellectually believed it, but I didn’t think it applied to me somehow). Too long of a comment, though!

I’m sorry you’re hurting. I wouldn’t wish the pain I felt from hating my body on my worst enemies! So glad I found you on twitter & your blog.

By: Crystal

Crystal — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 17:10:15 +0000

Trust me i’m not the best about image issues.. i have.. a LOT of them, but you my dear are beautiful. Outside & In. That’s what counts, it really doesn’t matter what size you are, as long as you’re healthy & happy

By: Lacey @digitalpagan

Lacey @digitalpagan — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 14:57:47 +0000

I'm reading this and tearing up as I relate to so much in your post. I have never dealt with anorexia or bulimia, but have struggled with weight and body image issues my entire life. Having reached my highest weight ever I am now working on correcting my own perception of myself. Thank you for this raw and honest look at weight issues. .-= Lacey @digitalpagan´s last blog ..Happy Birthday Baby Boy! =-.