Comments on: The UnMarriage (Relationship Series: Part 3)

By: Al_Pal

Al_Pal — Sat, 30 Jan 2010 13:40:59 +0000

I’d imagine plenty of people want to interview, but the hubs don’t want them posted!

My man & I have been together over eight years. We finally decided to ‘get engaged’ last year, but we haven’t planned pretty much anything. *shrug* In one way, not a problem, we’re totally chill…but if we’re going to do it, I do kind of want to start at least thinking about it this year. heh.
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By: Jenn

Jenn — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:11:36 +0000

@Katie (aka Kekibird),

No one. I’m sad no one wants to interview their partner. lol
Perhaps not all men have the patience for their wife’s antics like Bil does.

Bil really is a keep. I’m super lucky to have him.

By: Jenn

Jenn — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:10:19 +0000

@Chibi Jeebs,

Oh, me too! I’m Fine. Everything is Fine. Mean while you’re trying not to choke the ever living shit out of them. lol

It really does take a special person to bring us out of that.

By: Jenn

Jenn — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:09:02 +0000

@Amanda,

Still waiting to see your post. I’m really curious on what your interview would be…

(hugs)

By: Katie (aka Kekibird)

Katie (aka Kekibird) — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 05:35:44 +0000

Dude…no one has the balls to man up and post their questionnaire?!?! My man isn’t with me because he has his boys but this is a topic of conversation at night when the kids are asleep and we’re chatty so I’ll have to post our thoughts!

This is a great series. I like the open honesty.

Oh and Bil….he’s a keeper. Short, sweet, and straight-forward answers. Nice catch, girl!

By: Chibi Jeebs

Chibi Jeebs — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 04:27:01 +0000

LOVED this part of the series! So much here touches on stuff in my relationship (right down to the marriage issue and Bil’s answers regarding trust/cheating – Chebbar could have written the same thing).

Our relationship is… a little different, I guess? We talk about anything and everything, and I know a lot of people can have difficulties in asking for what they want or stating their true feelings. Hell, I used to be a closed book behind a brick wall and would “Fine” everything to death: Chebbar created a safe enough feeling environment that I don’t hesitate (much, heh) to speak up.

I’ll ask him if he’d be willing to be interviewed, and if he says yes, I’ll add my name to Mr. Linky.

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By: Kellee

Kellee — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 07:05:09 +0000

This has all been truly fascinating, Jenn. Good for you!! .-= Kellee´s last blog ..All the beauty of the world, 'tis but skin deep. =-.

By: Amanda

Amanda — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 14:27:23 +0000

Jenn – what an awesome idea. I have a feeling that many of us don’t have was is considered a ‘normal’ relationship and frankly, I’m not even sure what would be anymore.

I do know this, talking with your spouse is essential for a good relationship – I’ve never heard of someone getting divorced or breaking up because they talked *too* much. (Alright, go ahead and tell me I’m wrong though)

I’m going to get to this with the pornhub as soon as he returns from work but before he goes to sleep – yep, you know that 1 hr window… LOL

Hope you are going to have a great new years eve tonight
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By: Michelle P.

Michelle P. — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:14:37 +0000

@Jenn,

Nothing like adoption to make you talk about relationships of all kinds. And learning what makes a relationship work. I am absolutely certain that we have the right boy and it’s wonderful building a real bond with him. Someday I’ll get my room and my husband back, but I can wait.